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Canada: Pro-Sharia, pro-Caliphate organization holds conference in Mississauga
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Ryan Mauro: CAIR Official Stands By Memorial Day Criticism of US Troops
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WSJ's Stephens: Trump Must Be 'Decisively Rebuked' So Republican Voters 'Learn Their Lesson'
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Guest essay by Giordano Bruno Hopefully everybody remember Sallenger’s “hot spots” of sea level acceleration along the East Coast of the US. Asbury H. Sallenger Jr, Kara S. Doran & Peter A. How…
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Share on Facebook 1 1 SHARES Ever since the death of Justice Antonin Scalia, the Senate has been in a holding pattern on allowing confirmation hearings for President Obama’s nominee, Merrick Garland. The idea was that the voting public should get the option to chime in via the ballot box and then allow the next president to select the nominee. Regardless of how the party | Read More »
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Hillary Clinton took another sniper shot at Donald Trump's tax reform plan last week by calling it "a tax cut for billionaires" like him. She even argued that Trump "spends" trillions of dollars on the tax cuts. Question: How do you spend money on a tax cut?
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There is absolutely no difference between “democratic socialism” and “socialism.” The term “democratic socialism” is used solely to lull the average American int…
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Vandals spraypainted the Freedom Rock at the Cedar Falls Veterans Park in Iowa late Saturday night. It almost looks like ...
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I am an occupational therapist with 10 years of experience working with
children, parents, and teachers. I completely agree with this teacher’s
message that our children getting worse and worse in many aspects. I hear
the same consistent message from every teacher I meet. Clearly, throughout
my ten years as an Occupational Therapist, I have seen and continue to see
a decline in kids’ social, emotional, academic functioning, as well as a
sharp increase in learning disabilities and other diagnoses.
Today’s children come to school emotionally unavailable for learning and
there are many factors in our modern lifestyle that contribute to this. As
we know, the brain is malleable. Through environment we can make the brain
“stronger” or make it “weaker”. I truly believe that with all our greatest
intentions, we unfortunately remold our children’s brains in the wrong
direction. Here is why…
1. Technology
“Free babysitting service… the payment is waiting for you just around the
corner”. We pay with our kids’ nervous system, with their attention, and
ability for delayed gratification. Compared to virtual reality, everyday
life is boring. When kids come to the classroom, they are exposed to human
voices and adequate visual stimulation as opposed to being bombarded with
graphic explosions and special effects that they are used to seeing on the
screens. After hours of virtual reality, processing information in a
classroom becomes increasingly challenging for our kids because their
brains are getting used to the high levels of stimulation that video games
provide. The inability to process lower levels of stimulation leaves kids
vulnerable to academic challenges. Technology also disconnects us
emotionally from our children and our families. Parental emotional
availability is the main nutrient for child’s brain. Unfortunately, we are
gradually depriving our children from that nutrient.
2. Kids get everything they want the moment they want
“I am Hungry!!” “In a sec I will stop at drive thru” “I am Thirsty!” “Here
is a vending machine”. “I am bored!” “Use my phone!” The ability to delay
gratification is one of the key factors for future success. We have all the
greatest intention in mind to make our children happy, but unfortunately,
we make them happy at the moment but miserable in a long term. To be able
to delay gratification means to be able to function under stress. Our
children are gradually becoming less equipped to deal with even minor
stressors which eventually become huge obstacles to their success in life.
The inability to delay gratification is often seen in classrooms, malls,
restaurants, and toy stores the moment the child hears “No” because parents
have taught their“child’s brain” to get what it wants right away
3. Kids rule the world
“My son doesn’t like vegetables” “She doesn’t like going to bed early” “He
doesn’t like to eat breakfast” “She doesn’t like toys, but she is very good
at her IPAD” “He doesn’t want to get dressed on his own” “She is too lazy
to eat on her own”. This is what I hear from parents all the time. Since
when do children dictate to us how to parent them? If we leave it all up to
them , all they are going to do is eat macaroni and cheese, bagel with
cream cheese, watch TV, play on their tablets, and never go to bed. What
good are we doing them by giving them what they WANT when we know that it
is not GOOD for them? Without proper nutrition and a good night’s sleep,
our kids come to school irritable, anxious, and inattentive. In addition,
we send them the wrong message. They learn they can do what they want and
not do what they don’t want. The concept of “need to do’ is absent.
Unfortunately, in order to achieve our goals in our lives, we have to do
what’s necessary which may not always be what we want to do. For example,
if a child wants to be an A student, he needs to study hard. If he wants to
be a successful soccer player, he needs to practice every day. Our children
know very well what they want but have very hard time to do what is
necessary to achieve that goal. This results in unattainable goals and
leaves the kids disappointed.
4. Endless Fun
We created an artificial fun world for our children. There are no dull
moments. The moment it becomes quiet, we run to entertain them again
because otherwise we feel that we are not doing our parenting duty. We live
in two separate worlds. They have their “fun “world and we have our “work”
world. Why aren’t children helping us in the kitchen or with laundry? Why
don’t they tidy up their toys? This is basic monotonous work that trains
the brain to be workable and function under “boredom” which is the same
“muscle” that is required to be eventually teachable at school. When they
come to school and it is time for printing, their answer is “I can’t. It is
too hard. Too boring” Why? Because the workable “muscle” is not getting
trained through endless fun. It gets trained through work.
5. Limited social interaction
We are all busy, so we give our kids digital gadgets and make them “busy”
too. Kids used to play outside, where in unstructured natural environments,
they learned and practiced their social skills. Unfortunately, technology
replaced the outdoor time. Also, technology made the parents less
available to socially interact with their kids. Obviously, our kids fall
behind…the babysitting gadget is not equipped for social skill development.
Most successful people are the ones who have great social skills. This is
the priority!
The brain is just like a muscle that is trainable and re-trainable. If you
want your child to be able to bike, you teach him biking skills. If you
want your child to be able to wait, you need to teach him patience. If you
want your child to be able to socialize, you need to teach him social
skills. The same applies to all the other skills. There is no difference!!
You can make a difference though in your child’s life by training your
child’s brain so that your child will successfully function on social,
emotional, and academic levels. Here is how:
1. Limit technology, and instead re-connect with your kids emotionally
* Surprise them with flowers, share a smile, tickle them, put a love
note in backpack or under their pillow, surprise them by taking them
out for lunch on a school day, dance together, crawl together, have
pillow fights
* Have family dinners, board game nights, go biking, go to outdoor
walks with flashlight in the evening
2. Train delay gratification
* Make them wait!!! It is ok to have “I am bored “ time – this is the
first step to creativity
* Gradually increase the waiting time between “I want” and “I get”
* Avoid technology use in cars and restaurants, and instead teach them
waiting while talking and playing games
* Limit constant snacking
3. Don’t be afraid to set the limits. Kids need limits to grow happy and
healthy!!
* Make a schedule for meal times, sleep times, technology time
* Think of what is GOOD for them- not what they WANT/DON’T WANT. They
are going to thank you for that later on in life. Parenting is a hard
job. You need to be creative to make them do what is good for them
because most of the time that is the exact opposite of what they want
* Kids need breakfast and nutritious food. They need to spend time
outdoor and go to bed at consistent time in order to come to school
available for learning the next day!
* Convert things that they don’t like doing/trying into fun,
emotionally stimulating games
4. Teach your child to do monotonous work from early years as it is the
foundation for future “workability”
* Folding laundry, tidying up toys, hanging clothes, unpacking
groceries, setting the table, making lunch, unpacking their lunch
box, making their bed
* Be creative. Initially make it stimulating and fun so that their
brain associates it with something positive.
5. Teach social skills
* Teach them turn taking, sharing, losing/winning, compromising,
complimenting others ,using “please and thank you”
From my experience as an occupational therapist, children change the moment
parents change their perspective on parenting. Help your kids succeed in
life by training and strengthening their brain sooner than later!!!
Victoria Prooday
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An annual motorcycle ride, dedicated to accounting for military members taken as prisoners of war or listed as missing in action, gave Mr. Trump a receptive audience at the Lincoln Memorial.
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American flag sales bask in new glory this year from a surge in politics and patriotism.
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‘I can’t believe we blew this.”
Marco Rubio had just spoken to a group of pastors and other faith leaders. And the overwhelming reaction was to think of him as “the one that got away.” He seemed to perfectly diagnose the problems of our times — including hostility toward real religion and failure to give the family top priority and to cherish the dignity of work. But the pining for an alternative to Donald Trump may have missed one thing: The problems America is facing won’t be cured by any one man or woman. The group Rubio addressed wasn’t really looking for a political savior. But that’s what all too many in our society are doing: Just wait and see when he makes America great again. The revolution is what we need.
#ad#Yuval Levin begins his new book, The Fractured Republic: Renewing America’s Social Contract in the Age of Individualism, with a quote from a Frenchman, Alexis de Tocqueville, in his Democracy in America. Tocqueville saw the best of America and a caution. “Placed in the middle of a rapid river, we obstinately fix our eyes on some debris we still perceive on the bank, while the current carries us away and takes us backward toward the abyss.”
If you’re seeing the abyss on the horizon, of feel like an eyewitness already, Yuval starts with a bit of a pep talk. He does a little bit of “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times.” And like a Choose Your Own Adventure book, we are in the driver’s seat. Levin writes:
Life in America is always getting better and worse at the same time. Progress comes at a cost, even if it is often worth that cost. Misery beckons relief, so that our virtues often turn up where our vices have been. Decay and decadence almost always trail behind success, while renewal chases ruin. And in a vast society like ours, all of this is always happening at once. That means there are no simple stories to tell about the state of our country, and that upbeat and downcast social analyses are often just partial descriptions of one complex whole.
So the politics of elect-me-and-everything-will-be-different is so simplistic and unrealistic as to be comic. “Liberals and conservatives both frequently insist not only that the path to the America of their (somewhat different) dreams is easy to see, but also that our country was once on that very path and has been thrown off course by the foolishness and wickedness of those on the other side of the aisle.”
He goes on to say:
Each side wants desperately to recover its lost ideal, believes the bulk of the country does, too, and is endlessly frustrated by the political resistance that holds it back. The broader public, meanwhile, finds in the resulting political debates little evidence of real engagement with contemporary problems and few attractive solutions. In the absence of relief from their own resulting frustration, a growing number of voters opt for leaders who simply embody or articulate that frustration.
He points to the “promise” of our time as “diversity and choice” and the danger is “polarization and division.” And our politics “lags behind our culture and economy,” living more in the realm of the latter than the former. We saw this in the eyes of many of the politicians who came and went this election cycle: “Most of our political leaders, on the Left and the Right alike, . . . find themselves hard pressed to understand the polarization of our politics, even as they must play by the rules it has created. And they find it very difficult to grasp the diffusion transforming other facets of our society.”
Rubio, keeping people guessing about his political future, points to a truth: His most important role in life is as husband and father. Diversifying is one way to put it. Subsidiarity is another. No government bureaucracy will ever love a family the way a neighbor or a dad does. Our renewal is not in a president who gets things right, but in people who serve and lead in the most fundamental of ways, in their homes and in their communities.
As Tocqueville put it:
Christian nations in our day appear to me to offer a frightening spectacle: The movement that carries them along is already strong enough that it cannot be suspended, and it is not yet rapid enough to despair of directing it. Their fate is in their hands, but soon it will escape them. To instruct democracy, if possible to reanimate its beliefs, to purify its mores, to moderate its movements, to substitute little by little an understanding of affairs for its inexperience, and knowledge of its true interests for its blind instincts; to adapt its government to time and place; to modify it according to circumstances and men—such is the first duty imposed on those who would guide society in our day.
There are common values many of us share, even still. A Muslim college president on a panel with Christian leaders recently described some of the things we’re debating right now as appearing insane to his people. Polling continuously reports that most of America is opposed to abortion — we just want to make sure that women in difficult situations have options and support. If we start looking around and asking people what they want and need, we may just find America has great servant leaders still. The hard part is for the rest of us to support them — and certainly not make it harder for them to serve, in ways the Little Sisters of the Poor, among others, know too well. That is where we will find our renewal.
— Kathryn Jean Lopez is a senior fellow at the National Review Institute and editor-at-large of NRO. She is co-author of the updated How to Defend the Faith without Raising Your Voice. This column is based on one available through Andrews McMeel Universal’s Newspaper Enterprise Association.
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“I'm a neither Trump nor Hillary person--but you can see why sincere patriots say they'd prefer Hillary to Trump. https://t.co/bISBzMHvw9”
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Perhaps many have forgotten. In 2013 a progressive group of leftists began organizing a Million Muslim march on Washington DC scheduled for September 11th 2013. In rapid response (mostly through so…
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I’ll admit it: Arlington National Cemetery is my church. Actually, I’ll proclaim it.
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It has been over 6 years since that fateful day.
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Something you’ll never see at a Democrat or Republican convention: A candidate for Libertarian Party chair on Sunday danced and stripped down to his thong before leaving the stage amid a chorus of boos.
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Boycott movement sides with tormentors of LGBT community in war against Israel
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The U.S.-led nuclear agreement with Iran last year was a deciding factor that compelled Donald Trump to jump into the race for president, Eric Trump said.
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KUALA LUMPUR (Reuters) Prime Minister Najib Razaks government threw its support in parliament last week behind an Islamic penal code that includes amputations and stoning, shocking some...
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“Just a heads up over this holiday weekend: There will be an independent candidate--an impressive one, with a strong team and a real chance.”
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Bill Kristol Announces, 'There Will Be An Independent Candidate'
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This is what Marxism’s twisted love affair with criminals looks like.
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www.RebelPundit.com San Diego #NeverTrumps Spew Racial Hatred Against Black Trump Supporter Filmed by Jeremy Segal, Produced by Jeremy Segal and Andrew Marcu...